The Secret Diaries of a Black Sugar Baby

Black Sugar BabiesThis piece is submitted by our close friend Vanessa, a black sugar baby from New York. She has kindly offered to share her diaries with us, so that we can have a better understanding of a black sugar baby’s life.

Monday, September 5th, 2016

  • 9:00am – Study music at university.
  • 11:30am – See Steve (a white sugar daddy from Manhattan): have brunch with him; go to the movies together; go shopping.
  • 3:00pm – Go to Steve’s house in Manhattan and have sex with him (every time the sex part has four hours: during the first hour, we talk with each other; the second hour is foreplay; the third hour is intercourse; the final hour is cuddling each other in bed while talking.)
  • 7:00pm - Go home for dinner; do my homework.

Tuesday, September 6th, 2016

  • 11:00am – Have brunch with John and Michael (Steve’s friends who are influencers in the music industry) to discuss my career – my plan is to become a well-known singer.
  • 3:00pm – Study music at university.
  • 6:00pm – Have dinner with Steve.
  • 8:00pm – Go to the spa with Steve.
  • 10:30pm – Go home and write in my journal (summarize my time with Steve this week: check whether my needs are met; check my emotions and wellbeing).

Wednesday, September 7th, 2016

  • 10:00am – Study music at university.
  • 1:00pm – Have lunch with Matthew (another white sugar daddy).
  • 3:00pm – Give Matthew a massage in his apartment in city center (Matthew doesn’t need sex).
  • 5:00pm – Play the piano and sing some songs for Matthew in his apartment.
  • 7:00pm – Have dinner with Matthew.

Thursday, September 8th, 2016

  • 9:00am – Study music at university.
  • 12:00pm – Go shopping with Matthew (he bought me jewelry from Tiffany & Co.)
  • 2:00pm – Have lunch with Matthew and plan our holiday in Australia next month.
  • 5:00pm – Salsa dance with Matthew in his apartment.
  • 7:00pm – Have dinner at home and write in my journal (summarize my time with Matthew this week: check whether my needs are met; check my emotions and wellbeing).

Friday, September 9th, 2016

  • 10:00am – Study music at university.
  • 12:30pm – Have lunch with Phil (Matthew’s connection) who manages 50% of the music industry in New York and see how Phil can help me with my career because I’m going to graduate from university soon.
  • 3:00pm – Go to Phil’s company to meet his key associates.
  • 5:00pm – Go home and have a “money time”: Steve has paid me $5000 (monthly allowance) & Matthew has paid me $4000 (monthly allowance), apart from the money they spent while shopping. I save $4500 for my future, and use the remaining $4500 to make my life better and support my family.
  • 8:00pm – Go out with my girlfriends.